I am your
puppy:
To whom it
may concern:
I am your
puppy, and I will love you until the end of the earth, but please know a few
things about me. I am a puppy; this means that my intelligence and capacity for
learning are the same as an 8-month-old child. I am a puppy; I will chew
EVERYTHING I can get my teeth on. This is how I explore and learn about the
world. Even HUMAN children put things in their mouths. It’s up to you to guide
me to what is mine to chew and what is not.
I am a
puppy; I cannot hold my bladder for longer than 1-2 hours. I cannot “feel” that
I need to poop until it is actually beginning to come out. I cannot vocalize
nor tell you that I need to go, and I cannot have ‘bladder” and bowel control
until 6-9 months of age. Do not punish me if you have not let me out for 3
hours and I tinkle. It is your fault. As a puppy, it is wise to remember that I
NEED to go potty after eating, sleeping, playing, drinking and around every 2-3
hours in addition. If you want me to sleep through the night, then do not give
me water after 7or 8 pm. A crate will help me learn to housebreak
easier, and will avoid you being mad at me. I am a puppy, accidents will
happen, please be patient with me! In time I will learn.
I am a
puppy I like to play. I will run around, and chase imaginary monsters, and
chase your feet and your toes and ‘attack’ you, and chase fuzz balls, other
pets, and small kids. It is play; it’s what I do. Do not be mad at me or expect
me to be sedate, mellow and sleep all day. If my high energy level is too much
for you, maybe you should consider an older rescue from a shelter or Rescue
group. My play is beneficial, use your wisdom to guide me in my play with
appropriate toys, and activities, like chasing a rolling ball, or gentle tug
games, or plenty of chew toys for me. If I nip you too hard, talk to me in “dog
talk”, by giving a loud YELP, I will usually get the message, as this is how
dogs communicate with one another. If I get too rough, simply ignore me for a
few moments, or put me in my crate with an appropriate chew toy. I am a puppy; hopefully
you would not yell, hit or strike, kick, or beat a 6 month old human infant, so
please do not do the same to me. I am delicate, and impressionable. If you
treat me harshly now, I will grow up learning to fear being hit, spanked,
kicked or beat. Instead, please guide me with encouragement and wisdom. For
instance, If I am chewing something wrong, say “no chew!” and hand me a toy I
can chew. Better yet, pick up ANYTHING that you don’t want me to get into. I
can’t tell the difference between your old sock and your new sock, or an old
sneaker and your 200.00 Nikes.
I am a
puppy; and I am a creature with feelings and drives much like your own, but yet
also very different. Although I am not human in a dog suit, neither am I an
unfeeling robot who can instantly obey your every whim. I truly DO want to
please you, and be a part of your family, and your life. You got me (I hope)
because you want a loving partner and companion, so do not relegate me to the
backyard when I get bigger, do not judge me harshly but instead mold me with
gentleness and guidelines and training into the kind of family member you want
me to be …
I am a
puppy; and I am not perfect, and I know you are not perfect either. I love you
anyway. So please, learn all you can about training, and puppy behaviors and
caring for me from your veterinarian, books on dog care and even researching on
the computer! Learn about my particular breed and it’s “characteristics”. This
will give you understanding and insight into WHY I do all the things I do. Please
teach me with love, patience, the right way to behave and socialize me with
training in a puppy class or obedience class, we will BOTH have a lot of fun
together.
I am a
puppy and I want more than anything to love you, to be with you, and to please you.
Won’t you please take time to understand how I work? We are the same you and I,
in that we both feel hunger, pain, thirst, discomfort, fear, but yet we are
also very different and must work to understand one another’s language, body
signals, wants and needs. Some day I will be a handsome dog, hopefully one you
can be proud of and one that you will love as much as I love you.
Love,
your puppy
(Jim D.
Ellis, 2001;
Author’s
note:
“May be
reposted and shared freely as long as this credit appears with the post given
to J. D. Ellis 2001, rottweilerdriver@aol.com.”)
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